s we sit on the edge of a new era, we see how the very new problems we are facing as individuals, in the workplace, at home and in society are affecting us all.  As we watch such tragedies on the news as the recent Columbine High School shooting and the subsequent copycat events, we gasp at the horror of what has become of us.  I can see time and time again the search and the urgency to establish blame.  If only we could find what and who is ultimately responsible for such horrors, somehow we could find peace.  I want to make it clear that there is no peace.  We will not be able to make sense of such things.  But it does not end here.  Blame is not necessary but rather standing up and taking action.  I ask myself what can I do to take responsibility for myself and decide what contributions I can make.  Unfortunately so many young people are not taught the skills to deal with life and life's challenges and disappointments.  I do not want

my children or future generations to fall victim to senseless violence, not being able to live life to its natural end.  It is not natural to die at the hand of another.  Fewer and fewer kids are equipped with the skills to cope with life.  Let us not wait until a young person graduates from college before we teach them the skills that will include everyone in our great society with all their differences.

Growing up today is as difficult if not more difficult than at any other time.  There are so many temptations that are difficult to resist even for the most centered of kids.  Unfortunately kids are faced with very adult issues at younger and younger ages and are even less skilled than ever to deal with the issues with which they are faced.  Children are no longer the innocent among us.  They too are part of the bigger society.  I believe that it is each person's responsibility at home, in schools, through mentor programs, in churches, in community

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